Discerning Love:
Finding an Eternal Companion with Faith and Purpose
A faith-centered guide to intentional dating, healing, and preparing for eternal love. As a first-generation Filipino-American and woman of faith, I’ve walked through heartbreak, healing, and second chances. This book shares my personal journey — and offers practical tools, spiritual guidance, and hope for anyone seeking eternal companionship rooted in gospel principles.
About The Book
I didn’t set out to write a book about dating. I set out to heal.
As a first-generation Filipino-American, a military daughter, and a woman of faith who has walked through divorce, heartbreak, and redemption, I’ve discovered what it means to trust God’s timing and prepare for the kind of eternal companionship that lasts beyond this life.
This book is for anyone who longs to date with intentionality, heal from past wounds, and build a relationship rooted in eternal covenants — whether you’re just starting to date, healing from divorce, or seeking clarity in your relationship journey.
Companion Journal
Take your journey deeper with the Discerning Love Companion Journal.
This printable or physical journal gives you personal reflection exercises, scripture study prompts, and guided questions based on the book — designed to help you align your heart, heal from past wounds, and prepare for eternal love.
Blog
Coming soon: Articles, personal reflections, dating tips, and spiritual insights for faith-based singles and divorcees.
Hello, I’m Lizadel!
-and this is a piece of my story.
I didn’t set out to write a book about dating. I set out to heal, to grow, and to find the kind of love my heart and my faith both longed for. As a first-generation Filipino-American and a military daughter, my life has been full of beautiful beginnings, hard lessons, and second chances.
I’ve walked through divorce, heartbreak, and disappointment — and I’ve also discovered the grace that comes from aligning my life with God’s plan.
Discerning Love isn’t just about dating — it’s about becoming. It’s about learning how to let God refine your heart, how to trust His timing, and how to prepare yourself for the kind of eternal companionship that lasts beyond this life.
Wherever you are in your journey — whether you’re just starting to date, healing from the past, or hoping for a new beginning — I hope my story can offer you hope, perspective, and faith that God is very much in the details.
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